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All About LoveAll About Love, BookNew Visions
by hooks, bellBook - 2000 | 1st editionBook, 2000. 1st edition
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Added Dec 14, 2022
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- Most men feel that they receive love and therefore know what it feels like to be loved; women often feel we are in a constant state of yearning, wanting love but not receiving it. (From the introduction, Grace: Touched by Love)
- Sadly, many of our nation's citizens are proud to live in one of the most democratic countries in the world even as they are afraid to stand up for individuals who live under repressive and fascist governments. They are afraid to act on what they believe because it would mean challenging the conservative status quo. Refusal to stand up for what you believe in weakens individual morality and ethics as well as those of the culture. No wonder then that we are a nation of people, the majority of whom, across race, class, and gender, claim to be religious, claim to believe in the divine power of love, and yet collectively remain unable to embrace a love ethic and allow it to guide behavior, especially if doing so would mean supporting radical change... An overall cultural embrace of a love ethic would mean that we would all oppose much of the public policy conservatives condone and support. (From chapter six, Values: Living by a Love Ethnic)Sadly, many of our nation's citizens are proud to live in one of the most democratic countries in the world even as they are afraid to stand up for individuals who live under repressive and fascist governments. They are afraid to act on what they…
- Patriarchy, like any system of domination (for example, racism), relies on socializing everyone to believe that in all human relations there is an inferior and superior party... and that it is therefore natural for the powerful to rule over the powerless. (From chapter six, Values: Living by a Love Ethnic)Patriarchy, like any system of domination (for example, racism), relies on socializing everyone to believe that in all human relations there is an inferior and superior party... and that it is therefore natural for the powerful to rule over the…
- To truly serve, we must always empty the ego so that space can exist for us to recognize the needs of others and be capable of fulfilling them. The greater our compassion the more aware we are of ways to extend ourselves to others that make healing possible... Compassion opens the way for individuals to feel empathy for others without judgement. Judging others increases our alienation. (From chapter twelve, Healing: Redemptive Love)To truly serve, we must always empty the ego so that space can exist for us to recognize the needs of others and be capable of fulfilling them. The greater our compassion the more aware we are of ways to extend ourselves to others that make healing…
- We cannot know love if we remain unable to surrender our attachment to power, if any feeling of vulnerability strikes terror in our hearts. (From chapter twelve, Healing: Redemptive Love)
In Defense of WitchesIn Defense of Witches, BookThe Legacy of the Witch Hunts and Why Women Are Still on Trial
by Chollet, MonaBook - 2022 | First editionBook, 2022. First edition
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Added Jul 18, 2022
What to Do When I'm GoneWhat to Do When I'm Gone, eBookA Mother's Wisdom to Her Daughter
by Hopkins, SuzyeBook - 2018eBook, 2018
Added May 27, 2022
Feminist Cross-stitchFeminist Cross-stitch, eBook40 Bold & Fierce Patterns
by Rohr, StephanieeBook - 2019eBook, 2019
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Added Oct 11, 2020
Palaces for the PeoplePalaces for the People, BookHow Social Infrastructure Can Help Fight Inequality, Polarization, and the Decline of Civic Life
by Klinenberg, EricBook - 2018 | First editionBook, 2018. First edition
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Added Dec 31, 2018
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Should be required reading for anyone in local government.
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- "At Starbucks, and at most businesses, really, the assumption is that you, the customer, are better for having this thing that you purchase... At the library, the assumption is you *are* better. You have it in you already... The library assumes the best out of people.""At Starbucks, and at most businesses, really, the assumption is that you, the customer, are better for having this thing that you purchase... At the library, the assumption is you *are* better. You have it in you already... The library assumes the…
HungerHunger, BookA Memoir of (my) Body
by Gay, RoxaneBook - 2017 | First editionBook, 2017. First edition
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Added Aug 12, 2017
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You have to be ready when you sit down to read this truly amazing book: ready for the honesty, ready for the sadness, ready to feel incredible heartache and admirable courage for Gay and everything she has been through. What a beautiful writer, what a beautiful and brave and honest person Gay is as she strips herself bare for us, and forces us to look at a society that can't and won't accept difference. I was so incredibly moved.You have to be ready when you sit down to read this truly amazing book: ready for the honesty, ready for the sadness, ready to feel incredible heartache and admirable courage for Gay and everything she has been through. What a beautiful writer, what…
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- This is what girls are taught -- that we should be slender and small. We should not take up space. We should be seen and not heard, and if we are seen, we should be pleasing to men, acceptable to society. And most women know this, that we are supposed to disappear, but it's something that needs to be said, loudly, over and over again, so that we can resist surrendering to what is expected of us.This is what girls are taught -- that we should be slender and small. We should not take up space. We should be seen and not heard, and if we are seen, we should be pleasing to men, acceptable to society. And most women know this, that we are…
- It is startling to realize that even Oprah, a woman in her early sixties, a billionaire and one of the most famous women in the world, isn't happy with herself, her body. That is how pervasive damaging cultural messages about unruly bodies are -- that even as we age, no matter what material successes we achieve, we cannot be satisfied or happy unless we are also thin.It is startling to realize that even Oprah, a woman in her early sixties, a billionaire and one of the most famous women in the world, isn't happy with herself, her body. That is how pervasive damaging cultural messages about unruly bodies are --…
The Soldier's ScoundrelThe Soldier's Scoundrel, eBook
by Sebastian, CateBook - 2016eBook, 2016
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Added Jul 16, 2017
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The perfect combination of steamy and sweet.
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Added Jul 16, 2017
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If you need your military thrillers to be spot-on with their details, then whoo-eee, this book is not the one for you. But if you enjoy a fast-paced story with an interesting (if relatively undeveloped) cast of characters and a setting different from what we're used to, then you'll find this an enjoyable and quick confection of a read.If you need your military thrillers to be spot-on with their details, then whoo-eee, this book is not the one for you. But if you enjoy a fast-paced story with an interesting (if relatively undeveloped) cast of characters and a setting different…
The International Living Guide to Retiring Overseas on A BudgetThe International Living Guide to Retiring Overseas on A Budget, BookHow to Live Well on $25,000 A Year
by Haskins, SuzanBook - 2014Book, 2014
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Added Jul 16, 2017
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This book is absolutely a starting point, not a reference -- and it is a starting point that delivers *exactly* what the title promises: a guide to where you can live well on $25,000 a year (that's mostly Latin America, folks, so the information leans heavily there) post-retirement.
This is not a book for people looking to work overseas, or start a business overseas, or move with children overseas; it's a book about asking yourself tough questions about what you want in life, including how much you want to spend to live that life, and giving some guidance about how you might get there.
While any book based on a financial number will quickly grow outdated, and some of the places mentioned may no longer be so affordable, the authors here stress the work people need to do to discover what might be a good fit as well as practical advice (such as living somewhere truly temperate will mean almost non-existent utility bills).This book is absolutely a starting point, not a reference -- and it is a starting point that delivers *exactly* what the title promises: a guide to where you can live well on $25,000 a year (that's mostly Latin America, folks, so the information…
From Duke Till DawnFrom Duke Till Dawn, BookThe London Underground
by Leigh, EvaBook - 2017 | First editionBook, 2017. First edition
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Added Jul 16, 2017
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I'm a huge fan of Eva Leigh, and while this book was great in so many ways, it was also frustratingly cavalier in others. Swindler Cassandra Blake and Alex, the Duke of Greyland, had met years before, when Cassandra tricked him into handing over 500 pounds; when they meet again, the facade of her lie comes crashing down.
This book could have been so much richer if it had focused less on the money-stealing/revenge/how seedy the underbelly is/George Lacey/the hunt for Martin Hughes and instead shined a light on the intriguing desire for change in British society, with Alex realizing the rules that kept he and Cassandra apart are outdated, as well as the ways society could help those less fortunate. These glimpses would have made the abrupt reversal of "they can never be together," and the deceptions used to get there (even if we knew it would be coming) so much more satisfying. If we're starting a whole new series focusing on the same kind of pairings, I expect more as a reader.I'm a huge fan of Eva Leigh, and while this book was great in so many ways, it was also frustratingly cavalier in others. Swindler Cassandra Blake and Alex, the Duke of Greyland, had met years before, when Cassandra tricked him into handing over 500…
George & LizzieGeorge & Lizzie, BookA Novel
by Pearl, NancyBook - 2017 | First Touchstone hardcover editionBook, 2017. First Touchstone hardcover edition
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Added Jul 04, 2017
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GEORGE & LIZZIE is a book for readers who love characters. Imperfect -- and confused -- Lizzie will jump out at you from the beginning, and whether you immediately love her, as I did, or hate her, you must give her a chance, for along the way, you'll meet the wonderful Marla and James, and George's fantastic parents, Lizzie's not-so-fantastic parents, and George, of course.
Nancy Pearl talks about writing the kind of story she likes to read, and she's certainly written the kind I like to read as well: complex, messy characters who make choices in spite of themselves, writing and language full of energy, and an exploration of deep, long-time friendship. I was also pleasantly surprised at how pitch-perfect Pearl writes about Generation X; I went in, having read the "marriage at a crossroads" description, expecting to read about characters much older than George and Lizzie are, and I loved to instead see characters struggling through the same kinds of societal and generational challenges that I did. It is also to me not as much a story about a marriage as it is about choices and the tales we tell ourselves. I only wish I could have spent more time with George and Lizzie.GEORGE & LIZZIE is a book for readers who love characters. Imperfect -- and confused -- Lizzie will jump out at you from the beginning, and whether you immediately love her, as I did, or hate her, you must give her a chance, for along the way,…
The Last Mrs. ParrishThe Last Mrs. Parrish, BookA Novel
by Constantine, LivBook - 2017 | First editionBook, 2017. First edition
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Added Jul 04, 2017
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This is the successor to GONE GIRL: sex, intrigue, and deceit.
The Misfortune of Marion PalmThe Misfortune of Marion Palm, BookA Novel
by Culliton, EmilyBook - 2017 | First editionBook, 2017. First edition
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Added Jul 04, 2017
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Marion Palm has been embezzling money from her daughters' school, and, one day, picks up and leaves her family. Day by day, we follow her husband, Nathan, her children, Ginny and Jane, Marion's colleagues and the administrators at the school, the detective on the case, and others in a wonderful and motley crew of characters as they struggle to figure out what happened to Marion. Virtually no one in this novel is particularly likable, and that is absolutely part of the charm.
Readers may feel compelled to connect this novel with WHERE'D YOU GO, BERNADETTE, and I would simply warn that the humor and levity that many found so appealing about that book is absent in MARION PALM. Instead, through spare, stripped-down prose, which purposefully lets the reader feel like a voyeur looking in on the slow burn train wreck that is the Palm family, we learn, layer by layer, more about Marion Palm, with each small reveal so satisfying in creating the larger picture. Even better: the ending is absolute perfection.Marion Palm has been embezzling money from her daughters' school, and, one day, picks up and leaves her family. Day by day, we follow her husband, Nathan, her children, Ginny and Jane, Marion's colleagues and the administrators at the school, the…
The Templars' Last SecretThe Templars' Last Secret, BookA Bruno, Chief of Police Novel
by Walker, MartinBook - 2017 | First United States editionBook, 2017. First United States edition
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Added Jul 04, 2017
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I absolutely adore Bruno, and in many ways, this book delivers the same things we've loved from past books: wonderful characters, delicious descriptions of food, and an obvious love and care for the Perigord region. This time, though, the mystery falls flat: it's overly complex, and the motive is not particularly well-explained, as the end is very rushed. Will I read the next Bruno book? Of course! Do I hope we return to mysteries less fantastical? I do.I absolutely adore Bruno, and in many ways, this book delivers the same things we've loved from past books: wonderful characters, delicious descriptions of food, and an obvious love and care for the Perigord region. This time, though, the mystery…
The Book of HyggeThe Book of Hygge, BookThe Danish Art of Contentment, Comfort, and Connection
by Brits, Louisa ThomsenBook - 2017Book, 2017
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Added Jul 04, 2017
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A beautifully designed book that helps one feel hygge whilst reading it. A much more philosophical look at this concept than many of the other books currently available.
$2.00 A Day$2.00 A Day, BookLiving on Almost Nothing in America
by Edin, KathrynBook - 2015Book, 2015
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Added Apr 30, 2017
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Edin's book will likely be overshadowed by Matthew Desmond's incredibly compelling EVICTED, but in reality, the two books make a striking pair, one looking at the housing side of the equation, and $2.00 A DAY looking at the question of extreme poverty. It seems unbelievable that anyone can survive in our country with so little cash, but Edin highlights the incredible ingenuity of the people living on so little, and traces the path of government assistance to its current place, where it costs more to give fewer people the help they need. A must read.Edin's book will likely be overshadowed by Matthew Desmond's incredibly compelling EVICTED, but in reality, the two books make a striking pair, one looking at the housing side of the equation, and $2.00 A DAY looking at the question of extreme…
Ice GhostsIce Ghosts, BookThe Epic Hunt for the Lost Franklin Expedition
by Watson, PaulBook - 2017 | First editionBook, 2017. First edition
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Added Apr 30, 2017
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The Franklin Expedition continues to be a story that fascinates, particularly through the many unsuccessful follow-up expeditions that sought to find answers to what happened to Franklin and his men. Watson's ICE GHOSTS tries to highlight those expeditions, as well as the long oral tradition of the Inuit and the Franklin shipwrecks.
Unfortunately, ICE GHOSTS suffers from trying to cram too much in. Nearly 200 pages of description of the Franklin Expedition itself still leaves many questions unanswered; the 150 years of expeditions that followed get short shrift. I wished for more maps, more photos, more description of the men who kept coming to search. So many of the people are fascinating that we the reader wish for more time spent.The Franklin Expedition continues to be a story that fascinates, particularly through the many unsuccessful follow-up expeditions that sought to find answers to what happened to Franklin and his men. Watson's ICE GHOSTS tries to highlight those…
Trust Me, I'm LyingTrust Me, I'm Lying, Book
by Summer, Mary ElizabethBook - 2014 | First editionBook, 2014. First edition
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Added Apr 30, 2017
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Added Apr 30, 2017
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A fascinating look at preparation for the first manned mission to Mars, with excellent character development.
The Collapsing EmpireThe Collapsing Empire, Book
by Scalzi, JohnBook - 2017 | First editionBook, 2017. First edition
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Added Apr 30, 2017
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Classic Scalzi -- space opera with excellent characters. The only drawback: that this book ends when it does.
A Conjuring of LightA Conjuring of Light, Book
by Schwab, VictoriaBook - 2017 | First editionBook, 2017. First edition
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Added Apr 30, 2017
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Almost entirely perfect.
I See YouI See You, Book
by Mackintosh, ClareBook - 2017 | Berkley hardcover editionBook, 2017. Berkley hardcover edition
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Added Apr 30, 2017
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Excellent plotting and pace, well-rounded characters, and a truly surprising ending -- this is the best psychological thriller I've read in some time.
The Girl Who Drank the MoonThe Girl Who Drank the Moon, Book
by Barnhill, Kelly ReganBook - 2016 | First editionBook, 2016. First edition
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Added Apr 30, 2017
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The story line for this book is wonderful, as are so many of the story's elements -- but I fear the execution doesn't quite live up to it. GIRL has an identity crisis, as though it can't decide if it wants to be a charming children's chapter book (Fyrian, the name Glerk, Luna's unwitting use of magic) or a pretty dark YA book (the Sorrow Eater, the way Xan and Luna are bound together, the Protectorate, the whole leaving-a-baby-in-the-woods thing). I suppose in a way that might make it a good middle grade read, as it will have parts that comfort and parts that challenge for a reader, but I found myself wishing it would be one or the other.The story line for this book is wonderful, as are so many of the story's elements -- but I fear the execution doesn't quite live up to it. GIRL has an identity crisis, as though it can't decide if it wants to be a charming children's chapter book…
Six Impossible ThingsSix Impossible Things, eBook
by Boyle, ElizabetheBook - 2017eBook, 2017
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Added Apr 30, 2017
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Fans of Willig's PINK CARNATION series will love SIX IMPOSSIBLE THINGS, because the tone is so similar -- a little romp-y, a little dangerous, and only a little romance (sex, yes, but the development of a romance? Not really). I love Roselie as a spy, because she is full of confidence and wit... and I am annoyed with her as the lead female in this romance, as none of the skill she has as a spy seems to carry over into her personal life. Brody I am less split on -- he just seems a terrible spy and a dunderhead when it comes to romance.Fans of Willig's PINK CARNATION series will love SIX IMPOSSIBLE THINGS, because the tone is so similar -- a little romp-y, a little dangerous, and only a little romance (sex, yes, but the development of a romance? Not really). I love Roselie as a…
The Café by the SeaThe Café by the Sea, BookA Novel
by Colgan, JennyBook - 2016 | First editionBook, 2016. First edition
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Added Apr 30, 2017
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Another sweet and delightful and perfect read from Colgan. The going-home trope is not always as interesting as the running-away one, but readers who loved THE BOOKSHOP ON THE CORNER will also very much enjoy CAFE.
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